Love confusions look set to shift

Would you date this guy???

Seems like nah to me...

Probably wants it to much we say - so better stop him, I recon.

That'll learn him real good.

Honk - Honk

Searching for Love

I’ve not been at all successful with winning dates.

Not really at any point with my Life.

But especially not since lockdowns – where I’ve felt increased pressure on my mind and body, to do more work, be a much better person, and find parts of myself that can attract female attention.

I don’t feel like I’ve done any of these Things well. And I’ve regularly collapsed under the weight of too many open fronts – just too much pressure – unable to stretch my mind, especially between intellectual, social, and intimate interactions.

·       My intention is very Good – help and Love for All.

·       My ability to circulate Energy through my body and share it with others is phenomenal but has been left dormant, through lack of opportunity and openness.

·       The skill of connecting with People personally, in spaces where there are many individuals, with complex and far-reaching connections, has deteriorated.

·       The skill of finding available women, and/ or finding Dates of shared intimacy has been almost non-existent.

·       Linking Personal Connection with Intimate Connection does not feel close with me in many ways, completely collapsing community engagements in some scenarios, further deteriorating trust, faith, confidence, and the ability to keep trying.

Beyond this, there are no platforms that provide full expressions of People – instead we have processes and applications that seem to rely on passing flows of energy, or algorithms, all designed to engage further in Things – technology, thought, idea, stuff, and differences – but not Human interactions, connections, and relationships.

Many bars have policies specifically against Human Interaction outside your known group

Many workshops and knowledge areas provide information that can be patchy, incomplete, unaligned, or just generally do not translate to direct new connections.

Many People stumble through relationships, sometimes for many Moons, without even addressing basic topics related to Connection and Intimacy.

Our relationship statistics overall are terrible – with low satisfaction, high barriers to entry, high failure, and high acceptance of inferiority. Our mental health statistics are one of the worst plagues in Human History, costing us Life.

We react and interact from positions and policies of hurt, afraid, confused, and unsure commitments, everywhere, in all parts of Life, building further and deeper into our pains.

We blame people, who are just as hurt, afraid, and confused as we are.

Many of us enjoy close personal relationships, that we value highly, while in practice, locking ourselves and others out of fuller, richer, more wealthy access – generally due to the cost and scarcity of genuine connection.

Most of us are good at showing positive, strong, solid, or together selves, regardless of internal turmoils that might be taking place.

I have regularly chosen to look within when I’ve been struggling for Connection.

All of this – everything I am, everything I’ve been trying to do, everything I’ve been trying to be – has been built for two ultimate goals:

·       Love for myself – close personal relationships

·       Love for everyone else – close personal relationships

If I’m willing to do something for anyone (including myself), then I figure, I may as well do it for everyone.

So, I’ve built profiles, to assist with the dating efforts.

Along with my other profiles, these are designed to show an open, transparent account of myself, along with a safe, secure process, that I hope will aid in Connection.

This includes the following content platforms:

·       LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/intro_dating 

·       YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ageoflove6

·       Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kyle.grace.love/

I want to share Good Expressions and Experiences.

I want to share Love.

So many times, so many places, I’ve left little gifts, just hoping that one day, someone finds them, and perhaps finds a little smile or glint of interest with it.

So many times, I feel a disgust in myself, for sharing so openly, without any open channels to reciprocate feeling.

For so long, I’ve felt so incredibly hungry for intimate connection, that I’ve been incredibly unwell, including losing appetite, gaining appetite, losing focus, pains in my body, spinning head, painful heart, breathlessness, blindness, and strange movement patterns.

All these symptoms take me further away from intimate connection, driving deeper wedges between us and myself – increasing the cost of connection for me, you and us overall.

I would like to meet people in person, out in regular Life.

I have invested in this approach, through many hours and many interactions.

I have not found much luck…

Many times, I’ve experienced expressions of joy, happiness, and gratitude when engaging in personal connection with strangers.

Many times, I’ve been reflected aggression and fear when I’ve engaged in personal connection with strangers.

Many times, I’ve been reflected anger, hurt, and disgust when attempting to steer a conversation towards more intimate topics.

Many times, I’ve been reflected disappointment, inferiority, and inadequacy when not pushing conversations towards more intimate topics quickly or smoothly enough.

The weight of negative reflection far outweighs any positive reflections, slowing me down, preventing many from connecting with shared joys of uplifting experience.

None of these in person interactions have any bearings on truth, my heart, or my Soul.

They do not represent me as a person.

They do not represent my wants, needs, beliefs, or desires.

They do not express the content | the substance | the feeling | the energy | the commitment I can bring, I can share, I can uplift with.

Any initial in person expressions with strangers are like the cover of a book, usually a presentation, by an artist, simply trying to present some catchy theme that captures depth and breath of thought, feeling, and idea. While the adage goes “don’t judge a book by it’s cover”, our society has become more discriminating on “covers” than ever before – where honest, humble, authentic expression does not seem valued nearly highly enough.

Further to this, so many covers present as iron bars of a prison, surrounded by mazes of tricksters, and moats of aggressive creatures – not at all interesting looking reads.

Added to these challenges, are individual people in general, who can often act on behalf of someone else, taking issue with any blips appearing on their radar, without any investigation. Social interactions are difficult enough, without adding in these elements, these reactions stemming from our hurts, fears, confusions, and ignorance.

I do intend to keep trying to find ways through in person, social interaction.

The hope was, with online definition, perhaps I could find some interactions, where I could slowly and steadily build intimate health and fitness, to perhaps enable more confident in person interactions, or perhaps even find love in and of itself.

Further to this, the hope is, wherever I might initially source connections, I have great definition of myself I can share – so if someone is interested in me, they can get to know me quite deeply and determine if it’s worth our time to continue exploring potentially deeper relationship.

nobody has responded so far…

Never-the-less, the exercise has been a labour of raw, honest, deep, vulnerable expression of myself, where I’m basically sharing a Season’s worth of my most intimate self, publicly, for One and All.

When I look back, I feel proud of the authenticity I’m bringing of myself to this channel, and I remain intrigued if the concept engages with many or even any-one…

The overarching theme of sharing this Dating Profile is to pose questions including:

1.     Who are we? Really? Most personally? Most deeply? Most intimately?

2.     What is most important for layered Connection, beyond our initial impressions? What order do you want to know stuff about each other?

3.     What are good, safe, secure processes to Connection, that can empower us with more confidence, trust, and ability to surrender ourselves into Love with each other, more quickly?

4.     What is an energy, a feeling, a vibe worth, when someone has so much more they can offer – and we can morph any of these, into whatever we want, ourselves, together anyway?

5.     If we can simply and confidently trust the presentation that someone is making as true, honest, and real, how quickly and deeply can we fall into intimate connection with each other?

6.     How can we make Human Connection, and our Relationships cheaper to find and more valuable to experience?

7.     How can we automate our processes, so that we can just know, that we will find and experience Love with each other, whenever we so desire, and it will be Good, and Free?

8.     How do we restore Love and Abundance to the infinite pools of growth and togetherness that it’s always been – that it is there for us right now to be.

Check these out | LinkTree | YouTube | Facebook.

Would you like to date me?